Writing


“Even After Proposition 8, the Fight — and the Party — Must Go On,” The Huffington Post, May 27, 2009.


“Future Perfect,” Girls Who Like Boys Who Like Boys: True Tales of Love, Lust, and Friendship Between Straight Women and Gay Men (Tom Dolby and Melissa de la Cruz, editors), Dutton, May 2007.


“What’s really going on in the male world of Entourage?” Out, May 2007.


“For Designers’ Disciples, Home as Homework,” New York Times, December 14, 2006.


“Preppies Are My Weakness,” From Boys to Men: Gay Men Write About Growing Up (Ted Gideonse and Robert Williams, editors), Carroll & Graf, September 2006.


“Paul Haas gives classical music a little shake in ‘Rewind,’ traveling 500 years without breaks,” San Francisco Chronicle, June 26, 2006.


“Voices: Post-Breakup Disorder,” Out, July 2005.


“Writers make good bloggers but does blogging affect good writing?” San Francisco Chronicle, July 11, 2005.


“Dating: Relationship Pitfalls,” Out, June 2005.


“Dating: Are You Really Ready for a Relationship?” Out, June 2005.


“The Gift” (short story), Lodestar Quarterly, Summer 2005.


“Delicious by Mark Haskell Smith” (book review), Out, April 2005.


“Relationships: Eight Signs Your Boyfriend May Be Cheating on You,” Out, April 2005.


“What it Feels Like for a Girl,” Zulkey.com, February 2005.


“Bright Lives in the Big City,” Beatrice.com, February 2005.


“Gay Valentines: What That Gift Really Means,” Out, February 2005.


“Rinse, Delete, Repeat: A Breakup To-Do List,” Out, January 2005.


“You Say You Want a Resolution?” Out, January 2005.


“What Does Your Car Say About You?” Out, November 2004.


“The Benefit Queen’s Guide to Dating,” Out, September 2004.


“Guys Who Don’t Go All the Way,” Out, February 2004.


“Husband Hunting: Ten Guys You Should Date Before Settling Down” (co-written with Kevin Arnovitz), Out, December 2003.